New question today! It’s a good one, too. I talk a lot about client screening, but it’s been a while since I’ve written on the topic of how to figure out if an escort is legit. Dear Annie, I found an escort on Eros.com. She has her own website but refuses reviews (which I understand […]
Yay, new question!! Well, semi-new, because it came in like 2 weeks ago and I’m just now getting to it. This one’s a little different from most of the others–today I’m going to answer a couple questions not from a client, but from a woman who is considering working as an escort in New Orleans. […]
Happy Lundi Gras, everyone!! I’ve had a chaotic day, and I finally have a chance to sit down and chill. So, I thought I’d answer a question I received from a reader about a week ago. The topic: older gentlemen and escorts. Specifically: Can older gentlemen hope to meet with significantly younger escorts? and How […]
Today, I’m going to address a couple questions that EVERYONE asks at some point when they first decide to start dating escorts, or some might say, when they first “enter the “hobby” (I hate that term for it, but ya know…when in Rome…). Guys usually ask how they can tell if an escort is an undercover police officer, or if she’s working with law enforcement in some other capacity. Strangely enough, that’s one of the questions we (escorts) all ask when we first start in the biz. Seems like we have similar fears…
There’s a new site in town! Trustedfling is a client screening site for escorts, and a new, simpler way for clients to screen out providers who are unsafe or unsavory:
The questions about screening never end, and sometimes my clients give me fantastic ideas. For instance, this client proposed a new way for me to screen clients via employment info, without asking them to send emails from their work email account.
Hey all, I know that arranging a meeting can be a daunting task. It really does help simplify things if, when you contact me, you provide: Your name Screening info (see here) The date and time you’d like to meet (and a couple alternatives if possible) The number of hours you’d like to schedule The […]
Continued from the previous post, in which a client asked for advice on a few topics. I’ve chosen to break them up into separate entries. In this one, I’ll address a question regarding a client’s number of “Okays” (stamps of approval by escorts he’s met with) on the screening website Preferrred411 (commonly referred to as “P411”).
Hey all! Happy New Year! Hope 2015 is treating y’all well. It’s brought some huge changes for little ol’ me. Some of you know what I’m talking about; some of you don’t. Don’t worry, I’m fine and nothing terrible has happened. It’s ultimately a good (actually, awesome and amazing) thing, but it’s going to be […]
Escort screening & verification can seem weird and invasive to newbies. Remember that escort screening is important for safety and discretion reasons. Escorts want to be discreet. Rest assured that’s our top priority. But it’s not our only top priority–we also want to be safe. Screening keeps us safe. The “screening processes” we use can seem really weird and invasive to a newbie, especially since Hollywood and the media like to portray escorts as women who have sex indiscriminately with complete strangers for a few bucks, and do whatever the “customer” wants, whenever and however he wants to, without knowing a thing about him (or caring!). Here’s the understatement of the century: that’s not really accurate.
Some escorts won’t see black men. I’m not ashamed of how I feel about these “No Black Men” policies.
Just Starting Out? Click Here for My Client Screening Tips for New and Curious Escorts and Clients. General Questions About Escorts and “The Hobby”? Click Here for “Ask Annie,” My Advice & Answers Project! ~~Recommended Sites~~ ** Annie Calhoun’s Amazon Wishlist — Of Course ;) ** TER – The Erotic Review P411 – Preferred411 (not […]
**This is Part 3 of a three-part series explaining some of the most common screening methods escorts, providers, and other adult entertainers use to ensure safety and discretion with clients.** My Screening Practices Explained, Part 1: Just Google Me, Baby! My Screening Practices Explained, Part 2: P411, Date-Check, TER, & References. My Screening Practices Explained, […]
Update: As of 2015, I no longer recommend Date-Check, and you can read about just a few of the reasons why here. Anyone want a 3-month free trial to Date-Check? Date-Check is a screening website used by clients and providers–kind of like Preferred411, but much uglier and even more user-unfriendly (Sorry, but it’s true). Shoot […]
**This is Part 2 of a three-part series explaining some of the most common screening methods escorts, providers, and other adult entertainers use to ensure safety and discretion with clients.** My Screening Practices Explained, Part 1: Just Google Me, Baby! My Screening Practices Explained, Part 2: P411, Date-Check, TER, & References My Screening […]
**This is Part 1 of a three-part series explaining some of the most common screening methods escorts, providers, and other adult entertainers use to ensure safety and discretion with clients.** My Screening Practices Explained, Part 1: Just Google Me, Baby! (
Update: As of 2015, I no longer accept Date-Check.com or Date-Check.net (I’m not sure why they’re switching domains, but it appears that’s what they’re doing now). They’re a shady company run by people who don’t seem to know the basics of website administration, much less how to handle sensitive information. It was a long and […]
For those who have asked: Yes, I am indeed on P411 (Preferred411), and I use it as part of my screening process. If you don’t know what P411 is, you should check out the Preferred411.com website. It’s an excellent screening tool for both escorts and clients. Feel free to contact me there!