As some of you know, I’ve had a pretty harrowing month. My dog had a cancer scare and had to get 7 masses removed, my car had to go into the shop, I had to remove some asbestos siding from a rotten, termite-damaged exterior wall of my house so that I could have workers come […]
New question today! It’s a good one, too. I talk a lot about client screening, but it’s been a while since I’ve written on the topic of how to figure out if an escort is legit. Dear Annie, I found an escort on Eros.com. She has her own website but refuses reviews (which I understand […]
Yay, new question!! Well, semi-new, because it came in like 2 weeks ago and I’m just now getting to it. This one’s a little different from most of the others–today I’m going to answer a couple questions not from a client, but from a woman who is considering working as an escort in New Orleans. […]
Happy Lundi Gras, everyone!! I’ve had a chaotic day, and I finally have a chance to sit down and chill. So, I thought I’d answer a question I received from a reader about a week ago. The topic: older gentlemen and escorts. Specifically: Can older gentlemen hope to meet with significantly younger escorts? and How […]
Today, I’m going to address a couple questions that EVERYONE asks at some point when they first decide to start dating escorts, or some might say, when they first “enter the “hobby” (I hate that term for it, but ya know…when in Rome…). Guys usually ask how they can tell if an escort is an undercover police officer, or if she’s working with law enforcement in some other capacity. Strangely enough, that’s one of the questions we (escorts) all ask when we first start in the biz. Seems like we have similar fears…
There’s a new site in town! Trustedfling is a client screening site for escorts, and a new, simpler way for clients to screen out providers who are unsafe or unsavory:
The questions about screening never end, and sometimes my clients give me fantastic ideas. For instance, this client proposed a new way for me to screen clients via employment info, without asking them to send emails from their work email account.
Hey all, I know that arranging a meeting can be a daunting task. It really does help simplify things if, when you contact me, you provide: Your name Screening info (see here) The date and time you’d like to meet (and a couple alternatives if possible) The number of hours you’d like to schedule The […]
Continued from the previous post, in which a client asked for advice on a few topics. I’ve chosen to break them up into separate entries. In this one, I’ll address a question regarding a client’s number of “Okays” (stamps of approval by escorts he’s met with) on the screening website Preferrred411 (commonly referred to as “P411”).
Hey all! Happy New Year! Hope 2015 is treating y’all well. It’s brought some huge changes for little ol’ me. Some of you know what I’m talking about; some of you don’t. Don’t worry, I’m fine and nothing terrible has happened. It’s ultimately a good (actually, awesome and amazing) thing, but it’s going to be […]
Escort screening & verification can seem weird and invasive to newbies. Remember that escort screening is important for safety and discretion reasons. Escorts want to be discreet. Rest assured that’s our top priority. But it’s not our only top priority–we also want to be safe. Screening keeps us safe. The “screening processes” we use can seem really weird and invasive to a newbie, especially since Hollywood and the media like to portray escorts as women who have sex indiscriminately with complete strangers for a few bucks, and do whatever the “customer” wants, whenever and however he wants to, without knowing a thing about him (or caring!). Here’s the understatement of the century: that’s not really accurate.
Some escorts won’t see black men. I’m not ashamed of how I feel about these “No Black Men” policies.
Just Starting Out? Click Here for My Client Screening Tips for New and Curious Escorts and Clients. General Questions About Escorts and “The Hobby”? Click Here for “Ask Annie,” My Advice & Answers Project! ~~Recommended Sites~~ ** Annie Calhoun’s Amazon Wishlist — Of Course ;) ** TER – The Erotic Review (somewhat popular in southern […]
**This is Part 3 of a three-part series explaining some of the most common screening methods escorts, providers, and other adult entertainers use to ensure safety and discretion with clients.** My Screening Practices Explained, Part 1: Just Google Me, Baby! My Screening Practices Explained, Part 2: P411, Date-Check, TER, & References. My Screening Practices Explained, […]
**This is Part 2 of a three-part series explaining some of the most common screening methods escorts, providers, and other adult entertainers use to ensure safety and discretion with clients.** My Screening Practices Explained, Part 1: Just Google Me, Baby! My Screening Practices Explained, Part 2: P411, Date-Check, TER, & References My Screening […]
**This is Part 1 of a three-part series explaining some of the most common screening methods escorts, providers, and other adult entertainers use to ensure safety and discretion with clients.** My Screening Practices Explained, Part 1: Just Google Me, Baby! (
Scheduling a Date If you are ready to make an appointment, please first check my Booking page for details. I do not meet with everyone who contacts me–that would be nearly impossible, as I receive quite a few emails a day. Scheduling is a complicated matter, as we both have lives, complete with responsibilities and […]
Do you know any escorts in my city? Who do you recommend? I know reputable providers all across the US and beyond. I’ll be in New Orleans for a few days. Where should I eat? With or without a date, there are a few places I know of that I’m pretty sure you’ll love. I […]